Add total delete files size to partition table

[osscm]

fix #14803

[osscm]

cc @xxubai can you please review, thanks!

[ebyhr]

@osscm Note that there's an existing PR #14820

[osscm]

@osscm Note that there's an existing PR #14820

thanks @ebyhr.
I misunderstood the issue, and therefore my changes are different.
the other PR is adding total_bytes_delete_files and total_bytes_eq_delete_files
so, we can add it here. also, have added a test-case if @xxubai want to add.

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