apacheGH-1055: Fix flaky TestBasicAuth memory leak by waiting for async buffer release

gRPC/Netty releases Arrow buffers asynchronously after server shutdown.
Poll briefly for the allocator's memory to drain before closing it,
preventing spurious "Memory was leaked" errors in CI.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

Author: jbonofre

flight/flight-core/src/test/java/org/apache/arrow/flight/auth/TestBasicAuth.java

@@ -178,6 +178,12 @@ public static void shutdown() throws Exception {
     AutoCloseables.close(server);
 
     allocator.getChildAllocators().forEach(BufferAllocator::close);
+
+    // gRPC/Netty may still be releasing Arrow buffers asynchronously after server shutdown.
+    // Poll briefly to allow in-flight buffer releases to complete before closing the allocator.
+    for (int i = 0; i < 20 && allocator.getAllocatedMemory() > 0; i++) {
+      Thread.sleep(100);
+    }
     AutoCloseables.close(allocator);
   }
 }